I recently went out with a girl for a third date. The first 2 dates went sort of well, but fun nevertheless enough for a 3rd I think. Then came the 3rd and for some reason the plan was changed to meet by her apartment with her roommate still being there. She would be there of the remainder of the time and was with us when we went a local concert (which was not planned). The plan was to hang out at the apt with both girls. Now, am I crazy for thinking that was strange? Is she trying to get roommate approval after only 2 dates? I hardly know the girl im going out with and here I am talking it up with the roommate, who I must say was also pretty attractive. Naturally things didn’t work out after, as I felt really uncomfortable being put into this kind of situation.
How was I suppose to be all close and huddly cuddly with the girl I was currently going out with only meeting her twice before. Rather, I ended up having casual small talk with both the roomie and her. It also felt like a date with both of them that went horribly wrong. Is this normal procedure, have I missed something. I can see maybe after 10 dates when we are both comfortable with each other that she wants her dating partner to meet her friends and vice versa, not two. How would she like it if I took my friend along and went all went out together?
Maybe, other people can feel comfortable after 2 dates, but I need a lot longer to really feel cool with meeting her hot roommate. If she wasn’t up for another date, she shouldn’t have gone out again. I guess it was poor judgment on her part.
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does she speak french ala menage a trois
She seems to need approval of others.
OR
She talked about you so much, the roomie begged to check you out.
I just want to know if she gave you a tour of the bedroom? :)
Definitely a red flag, weird.
I hope you at least got the roommates number so that you didnt totaly waste your time
"How was I suppose to be all close and huddly cuddly"
Its "Cuddly Wuddly" LOL.
Anyways, could be she blabbed so much about you that the room mate wanted a crack at ya.
Pretty weird.
Sounds like she wanted roomie approval. Bad judgement call on her part after only 2 dates. Will there be a 4th date?
weirdo
very poor judgement on her part.
Yikes!
That is strange. Too soon for the roomie approval.
Hello Earth to Brooklyn guy... You must be spoken some stuff outside the Mirrer Yeshiva, and it aint Marlboro..
She was just giving you the "is he a total pig " test. You failed..
Listen to losers like eddie and you might as well make reservations for the Alta Bochur suite in the Irv..
Weird stuff. Are you sure she is straight?
totally retarted
weird
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