Lets Go Back to Arranged Marriages

I am probably the only one who thinks this, but this may be the only solution to the problem we are having in frum NY community. Allow me to explain. We are leaving the choice on who their children are to marry whom they themselves are seeking the best qualities out there. which in many instances are ending up with nothing. What happened to the 'marry this person and work it out later' theory. Every one will be forced to have these arranged wives and learn to like them for who they are and all that bull shit. Plus, i have faith in my parents that they will get me the hottest chic out there and the other positive character traits I am looking for, they have pretty good taste in woman and know what i like. Down with with girls who are looking for the Lawyer type and learns by daf yomi every morning. its not that i cant find a girl on my own, but every girl out there is the same frigin way and want the same exact guy. Not many guys i know out there fit their criteria. Im not going to law school just so a girl will actually be interesting in me more. Arranged wives will have to suck it up with their regular middle income hubbie for the rest of their lives. Now, who's with me.

frummie wedding recap

So now i know im not the only one reading my own blog, i can continue writing in it. Despite 1 (half my total comments) was the blog feed moderator from the feed i joined. I still cant figure that part out. i have no idea if im registered with jrant yet or not. hmm. anywhom, ive been to enough weddings in my life to know what expect, so i was not surprised with this one. Naturally, they had the 'its ok to see the girls at the shmorg but not ok to watch them eat there. But that issue has been overly covered im sure by every other blog and jewish tabloids. Then people wonder why the singles are so unsociable to the other sex. Im sure if you give them opportunities to develop experience in it they wouldnt feel so awkward. Their almost alien-like until they havta marry the opposite sex, then they some how make it work and be happy. another thing i noticed, all the girls are wearing the tightest skankiest outfit to these weddings. i have no problem with that, but then you got the guys with black hats all starring (during the chupa and shmorg of course). these double standards are killing me.

frum weddings suck

So now that I currently have access to the Internet from work, i can update my blog much more often and periodically throughout the day. I'm gonna try and keep them short and to the point. Ive seen some blogs as long as essays, and loose focus halfway through. This one I'm gonna focus on the frum weddings, the brooklyny style weddings and the obnoxious people that attend. where people come dressed up as everyone is better looking and fancier than everyone else. Some look like they have spent more money on make up and their gown then their down payment. i have a wedding later tonight, which i feel is gonna be another one of these typical weddings. How much make up do these married woman havta apply to their face. what are the husbands thinking of their wives doin this. Who are they attracting? And the men, why do they havta wear those expensive looking suits while clicking on their blackberries during the chupa? who are they trying to impress. Makes you wonder?