tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4424064832168159758.post2298148737416472746..comments2023-11-03T07:24:08.061-05:00Comments on The rantings of a frum guy who speaks his mind: Yo women - dont even think about changing my religious life styleNotsofrummiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14037364666948532450noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4424064832168159758.post-91525993027171740492007-02-20T13:34:00.000-05:002007-02-20T13:34:00.000-05:00hey, kinda just discovered this blog. Just wanted ...hey, kinda just discovered this blog. Just wanted to let you know as an orthodox girl who went to Yisheva all my life i can only tell you what my teachers taught me. That boys want to marry girls that are frummer than them. Since girls are more "spiritual" etc they can bring a man to a higher level, whatever that means. I have also heard from fellow male friends (from different schools) that in Yeshiva they are told to marry a "frum" girl. The boys can do whatever they want until they get married then they have to be serious. Perhaps this is what your freind was taught, and maybe part of him really wanted this lifestyle. no one but him knows for sure. from prsoanl experience of loosing a friend who is to "frum" to be around me i feel your pain.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4424064832168159758.post-18680356959668716412007-02-12T21:41:00.000-05:002007-02-12T21:41:00.000-05:00That is the power of pussy.That is the power of pussy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4424064832168159758.post-54569929584797355412007-02-12T14:16:00.000-05:002007-02-12T14:16:00.000-05:00one year ago this week I got enaged to someone who...one year ago this week I got enaged to someone who was way frummer then me who didnt try and change me- good thing was she just broke up with me instead. I will be posting up some storires of the fun times I had being part of a yeshivish family as regular old me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4424064832168159758.post-73407831264841677412007-02-11T05:59:00.000-05:002007-02-11T05:59:00.000-05:00Back in my dating days, I saw the opposite problem...Back in my dating days, I saw the opposite problem, that the nice "frum" guys were all marrying "down" to girls who were less religious, leaving the religious girls with a smaller pool to work with.<BR/><BR/>If your friend is really pretending and not sincere, it will come back to hurt their marriage when his true self comes out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4424064832168159758.post-22589025526206661972007-02-11T04:05:00.000-05:002007-02-11T04:05:00.000-05:00NSF-Big talker. Wait till you get married, then ta...NSF-<BR/>Big talker. Wait till you get married, then talk.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4424064832168159758.post-31953989481858309882007-02-09T02:36:00.000-05:002007-02-09T02:36:00.000-05:00This to me is one of the big problems with arrange...This to me is one of the big problems with arranged marriages, quick shidduchim, and people not marrying because they love each other for who they are. MAYBE, just maybe your friend was looking for something like this, someone to help him be more religious? Have you asked him if he's happy? <BR/><BR/>As for you being with a woman who will try to change you, it doesn't seem like that should even be a worry for you. You are pretty set in your judgements of the way you like things. Your problem will be in finding a woman who is as free thinking as you??? Am I wrong? <BR/><BR/>good luck!Totohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16188162186175200035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4424064832168159758.post-4214591585111007422007-02-08T22:32:00.000-05:002007-02-08T22:32:00.000-05:00Wow! Where do i even begin???I entertain myself pr...Wow! Where do i even begin???<BR/>I entertain myself pretty well with this blog. This blog seems to be a little microcosm of what goes on in your brain. You aren't funny. You are clearly witless. You also seem some kind of axe to grind with the jewish yeshiva system and women in general. It also seems like you are obviously trying to copy another very popular blog but are failing miserably!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4424064832168159758.post-54255107492902808272007-02-08T19:06:00.000-05:002007-02-08T19:06:00.000-05:00I question how religious your friend has become. I...I question how religious your friend has become. I mean I wonder how much G-d respects change, which is primarily based on getting some action in the sack.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4424064832168159758.post-15865405315353071152007-02-08T16:59:00.000-05:002007-02-08T16:59:00.000-05:00I don't know about that ( him being cool about the...I don't know about that ( him being cool about the restrictions).<BR/><BR/>I know a guy that is geting divorced because his wife won't let him chill out i.e. Netflix etc. The situation is more complex than that but it is part of it. She wants him to be something he is not. <BR/><BR/>How sad.Jacob Da Jewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03271564852032891769noreply@blogger.com